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8 Little Mistakes That Make Men Lose Interest By Brian Robbens

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You meet a new man and hit it off. You both love to talk and have fun together, and things just click.

But then he stops calling as often and seems to lose interest.

You’re baffled. It was going so well, and he didn’t say anything was wrong.

So what happened?

Let’s step into the mind of men to understand this better. After talking to many men about it, I found some surprising things that make them lose interest.

Let’s take a closer look at 8 little mistakes that women do that make men lose interest.

Some of these might not seem “little” but women sometimes do them very easily, even though they seem like a big deal. I’ll end with some little things that do drive men crazy and make them lose interest.

Mistake #1: Killing the thrill too quickly

A woman reading that might not have any idea what it means.

A man will know instantly: they like chasing a woman, and when she starts talking about being exclusive, the chase is over.

It’s like waiting for Christmas morning, and then you open your presents, the anticipation and excitement is gone.

You see this same effect with free merchandise. If something is free, we often assume it’s not that valuable. “You get what you pay for.” A surprising truth is that customers who overpay are often happier. That seems backwards, doesn’t it? But they feel like they’re getting a really good product.

Someone who buys a BMW, Porsche, or Corvette won’t go around complaining that they spent too much. Just the opposite! They might brag about how much they spent.

In dating, men like to feel like they earned a prize through their own merit.

So let a man chase you. If things go great from the first date, that doesn’t mean that you should drop all other men you’re dating.

Don’t let this new man think that this is a guaranteed thing, because then it’s a boring thing for him.

Mistake #2: Demanding too much from him

Pretend that “Mandy” met a man, it went great, and after a few dates, she assumed they’d start seeing each other more and more.

That can be Mistake #1, listed above, if she goes into committed, comfortable relationship mode too early. You see, that might end any flirting, teasing, and playfulness that men crave.

Even if you’re seeing each other, you can make a man really fall hard if you continue to let him chase you.

Let’s say that Mandy starts expecting him to see her every few nights and begins demanding certain things, which is Mistake #2.

It might not happen that soon, but when a woman starts putting pressure on a man, he can lose interest.

This sounds a little absurd, but we’ve probably all been there. We want a man to fall for us, and then we think that he’ll show his love by doing the things we want.

It can turn into ordering him around, or telling him that he can’t do certain things.

The mistake might also be asking too much, too soon, before he was ready to commit on the same level.

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Mistake #3: Talking about your ex

In a new relationship, exes will come up. There’s a point where you probably need to talk about them, especially if they’re in your life in some form, such as a parenting agreement.

But talking about an ex early on is a big no-no, and will cause a man to lose interest. It doesn’t matter how you’re talking about the ex.

If you’re complaining, that means you’re still hurt and angry, and the ex is still on your mind.

If you’re talking about what good friends you are with your ex, that might indicate future competition and resentment for the new man.

If your new man asks about your ex, keep your answers short and straightforward.

This new man probably wants to know how things stand, so give him an honest answer and move on. Dwelling on your ex in any fashion can cause your new interest to, well, lose interest in you!

Mistake #4: Giving up your life

It’s so exciting to fall in love that it’s easy to focus on your new man. But if you give up your life so you’re always free, he’ll lose interest.

Don’t empty your calendar so you can give all of your time to your new man. Your lives are bound to mix, but it causes problems if you dump your life and try to integrate into his life.

He fell for you the way you were, with your own life and interests, and things to talk about. So if you become someone waiting around to see him, he’ll lose interest.

Keeping your own activities and being unavailable at times makes you more of a catch — see #1 again.

When he gets to see you, it’ll be more special.

And you’ll be happier if you keep your life, friends, and activities, and then you won’t feel like you’re waiting for him to give you some time.

Mistake #5: Gossiping

Gossiping with your girlfriends can be fun, but it can flat-out annoy a man. He probably doesn’t know who you’re talking about, and he’ll see you more negativity, not them.

Studies have shown that when we hear people gossip, the negative feeling we get is attached to the gossiper.

You’re also using time that you could use to talk about your life, goals, dreams, new things you’re learning, or about new things going on in town. Discussing something you’re going through is different. You can share about your life, but don’t dump on your man about people you find irritating — you’ll lose his interest.

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Mistake #6: Sending mixed signals

Sending mixed signals will make a man lose interest quicker than anything else.

You might tell him you don’t mind if he goes out with friends…but then you’re hurt when he does and get angry with him.

Men can’t read minds. We want them to know what we really want, but you can’t test a man this way.

It’s not his fault if he goes by what you say. If you’re hurting and say you’re fine, he might not be able to read the subtle body signals, or be able to connect something that happened last week.

One example is asking him, “Do you think that woman is pretty?”

By asking, you’re indicating that it’s okay for him to answer honestly, but he might not realize you’re testing him.

If you say one thing but act another, he’ll also be confused, and then not know what to do or how to act around you. And he’ll lose interest.

Mistake #7: Doing everything for him

Women show care by doing little things, but men can get annoyed if their woman is trying to do everything for them.

If he’s losing interest, and you don’t know why, consider how many things you try to do for him.

You’re just trying to take care of him, but he might feel like you’re controlling him.

Doing too much, too early, can make him lose interest.

Mistake #8: Always being late and other little things

You probably have friends who are always late to everything. It seems that they can never plan enough time to do their makeup.

Men get annoyed by that too and lose interest, even though some women see it as a power play.

You can make men lose interest with some other seemingly innocent little things like:

    • Fishing for complements
    • Critiquing other women around you
    • Texting other people all the time
    • Being more engaged with your phone than him (looking at news, FB, Instragram, or whatever)
    • Complaining too often
    • Being too picky
    • Having a negative outlook
    • Always changing plans—saying you’d rather go somewhere else or do something else whenever he suggests something
    • Always playing devil’s advocate
    • Agreeing to everything he says and not having your own opinion

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So, now you know 8 things women do that make men lose interest. You probably want to know how to keep a man interested. It’s huge turn on to men if you know your worth.

He met this amazing woman and wants to date her…so don’t doubt yourself!

You have interesting ideas, cool activities, and plans. Men love to talk up their girlfriends and tell others about how smart, cool, fun, and amazing they are.

Many of the mistakes listed above happen because women get afraid that things aren’t going according to plan. They try to read into it too hard, and try to take action to keep things going well.

But when a man falls for you, he’s falling for you the way you are. You shouldn’t have to change or start doing things to keep him interested. When you’re worried, remind yourself that he chose you. He already decided that you’re good enough. In fact, he decided that you’re more than good enough. He wanted to be with you!

One big difference between men and woman is: Men want the woman to stay the same while the woman wants to change the man. So the simple answer is: continue to be yourself and enjoy the relationship, and don’t try to change the man!

Remember that he fell for you and likes you, and you deserve to enjoy your life and be yourself.

Check the mistakes above to ensure you’re not causing him to lose interest, and then you can relax and focus on nurturing an open, caring, committed relationship.

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7 Signs He Totally Adores You

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7 Signs That He Totally Adores You (And 5 Signs He’s A KEEPER) By Brian Robbens

Creator of Respark The Romance << 

When you’re in the rush of dating someone or in a new relationship, it can be hard to think straight.

Sometimes we read more than is there, or we over-think things because we want this to turn into something more.

Here’s 7 signs that he does, indeed, adore you — and it’s very hard to miss these!

And if he adores you, hopefully he’s a keeper, but we’ll also look at some signs to help you tell that as well. So let’s jump in. He adores you if:

1. He shows you his goofy side.

This sounds like a strange one, I’ll admit it. But have you seen a man in love?

He acts pretty goofy. He’ll have a lopsided grin and even act giddy around you. He actually wants to do those “cute little things” that men usually hate, like rubbing noses together and sharing ice cream.

When he adores you, it brings out his cute side, because he feels happy, in love, and open with you.

2. He can’t go a day without hearing from you.

The puppy love stage is so much fun. We’re both infatuated and want to see each other.

In fact, he can’t stand going more than a day without talking to you.

He’ll text you good morning or even call when you’re apart. He’ll check in with you to see how your day is going. And he’ll especially check on you if he knows you’re dealing with something that day that’s hard or stressful.

He might call out of the blue just to hear your voice.

3. He’ll throw caution to the wind.

I mean this in the best way possible: he won’t care what others think about him while he tries to win your heart.

He might make big, bold public displays of affection, like standing up in a park and singing to you.

And he’ll be happy to make a fool of himself.

He might make some big decisions and changes so he can see you more.

He’ll also make you a priority above other things because he wants you to feel special.

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4. He gives you the last one.

You’re sharing a bag of chips, and he looks down to realize there is one chip left.

What happens next will tell you a lot. Does he grab it for himself? Does it offer it to you, hoping you won’t take it? Or does he pick up the last chip and feed it to you?

Not only will he want you to have the last of things, he’ll want to share things with you.

In contrast, I once dated a man who was very sweet… for a while.

One day I spotted a bag of Cornnuts in his truck. It was one of our favorite shared snacks. I happily held up the bag and said, “Look what I found!” I fully expected him to share.

Instead he asked me, rather grumpily, “And can you put them back?”

That’s not how a man who adores you acts!

You’ll know he adores you because when you accidently do something that could offend him, he’ll shrug it off.

He’ll think you’re cute and adorable, and tell you so.

5. He’ll overlook the things that aren’t adorable.

If you’re like me, you’re worried about doing anything that come off as gross or “un-cute” in front of your man.

But life happens.

When a man adores you, he won’t be turned off when you do something embarrassing. It’ll seem like he doesn’t care about leg stubble or morning breath.

Truth be told, when a man is smitten, he might even find it cute when you do something you’d rather not let him see. When he adores you, it’s like you can’t do anything wrong.

6. He’ll want to hold you, hold your hand, cuddle, and gaze into your eyes.

When a man adores you, he shows it with actual adoration. He’ll smile ear to ear and tell people how lucky he is to have you in his life.

The attraction is at a crazy-high level, and he wants to touch you as much as possible.

7. He thinks about you all the time and lets you know it.

He’ll text you about a new restaurant he just saw because he thinks you might like it.

He’ll send your flowers or other surprises to work. He’ll send “miss you” and “thinking about you” texts.

He’ll do things that let you know he thinks about you during his day, like planning a romantic evening or buying you something he knows you’ll love. He might actually write a letter or card, or send a long email.

A man who adores you will let you know how he feels!

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So, you know he adores you, and that probably means that you like him as much.

But does that automatically mean he’s a keeper?

5 Signs he’s a Keeper…

If you’ve found a man who adores you, you’re very lucky. But don’t think that it’s so rare that you have to stick with him.

Instead make sure he’s deserving of you and all your awesomeness by looking at the following five signs that he’s a keeper.

1. He doesn’t want to change you.Respark the Romance

It can go to your head when a man adores you, but that doesn’t mean he can start telling you how to act or what you’re allowed to do.

A man worth keeping will be impressed by your talents, skills, achievements, and personality. He’ll let you know he thinks you’re a catch. If he adores you, he should love you just the way you are.

It’s one thing to encourage people, offer advice, and help them. It’s another to try and change them.

A few red flags include when a man tells you what you’re allowed to say, or that you shouldn’t be talking around certain people, or that you need to change how you dress.

Stay away from men who try to mold you into someone you’re not!

2. He notices and remembers the little things.

A keeper will get to know you and remember the important things.

Those important things include little things too. It shows excitement and thoughtfulness that he notices small details about you and your life. This is another sign that he’s invested , wants to impress and please you, and enjoys learning about you.

Some men will naturally love to learn everything about you and want to know all those little details.

A red flag here would be if he brings you flowers repeatedly, when you’ve told him you’re allergic to that kind. Or maybe he always considers his wishes first, and wants to eat somewhere that you don’t like.

I knew I had a problem once when a man I dated always wanted to get spicy, greasy pizza with lots of sausage. It didn’t seem to matter that I told him many times it made me sick.

A keeper will listen to you and remember things about you.

3. He does things to make you feel special.

When a man adores you, it’s easy for him to do things to make you feel special.

The trick is, does he continue to act that way after some time goes by?

It’s really sad if he acts that way for a few months before going back to his true self.

He should give you his full attention when you’re together, and do things to help you out.

He’ll listen to you and be a good friend. He’ll surprise you with gifts. And he’ll value your opinions and desires.

None of us can be perfect all of the time, but a good man who is worth keeping is going to do his best to make you feel like a princess.

4. He talks about a future with you.

If someone adores you, they probably are thinking about a future with you. A keeper is interested in making memories with you and moving toward a future together.

Early on, he might talk about the future in general, like if you want a family or if you have dreams of traveling the world. He might talk about things he’s always wanted to do and see if you’re interested in those as well.

He should actually talk to you and verbalize thoughts about the future, and it’s a good thing to listen and see if he brings the future up, or if it’s just you.

5. He respects you as an equal.

When a man adores you, he puts you first.

That puppy love is great, but as the relationship moves forward, it should grow deeper. He should adore you and respect you.

A real keeper will respect your likes and dislikes, even when you prefer different things than him. You might find a few things where you have different thoughts, opinions, and beliefs.

Can he respect your ideas when they’re different, and talk about them in a respectful way?

He should also see you as an equal in the relationship, with different strengths and weaknesses, but that’s one reason why a relationship helps us so much—we help each other.

You can have different roles but be equally important, and you both get a say in things.

If he’s a keeper, he’ll feel you’re equally important and should have an equal say in things.

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7 Signs He Totally Adores You

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How to Make Him Miss You Like Crazy by Brian Robbens

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There are few things more sweet and romantic than reuniting with the man you love, and having him run to you and wrap his arms around you.

Imagine him hugging you tightly and telling you how much he missed you.

It’s also very heartwarming when your man sends sweet texts even while he’s busy to let you know that you’re on his mind.

And it’s even better when he has to hear your voice because he misses you.

Respark the RomanceWe all dream of a man missing us this way, but how do you make that happen?

It can be hard when you’ve shared a home for many years and spend a lot of time together. But that doesn’t mean you don’t crave that feeling!

Chasing a man and trying to make him miss you seems to backfire — you end up looking needy and clingy, and he might run the other way. I’d like to share a better way.

Let’s look at 7 things you can do that will not only give him reason to miss you, but these tips will make you happier too.

Because, the truth is, it’s not about tricking him into missing you, but more about being someone he’ll want to miss.

 

Let’s dive into 7 ways to make him miss you like crazy!

1. Give him space and time to miss you

We usually have our phone in our hand, pocket, or bag, or sitting close by so we can text and talk anytime we want.

We tag people when we see a post they might like or send them a funny meme.

That’s great, but it’s hard for someone to miss you when you’re right in front of them all day.

So give him a little space to miss you. Give him some room to wonder what you’re doing.

Wait a bit to reply to his texts and calls to create a sense of longing before you reply to him.

If you seem busy, you seem more attractive because that means you have a life, and you’ll have more to talk about when you do talk to him.

2. Be more social

Pretend for a minute that your boyfriend or husband takes you to a party where you don’t know people.

You could:

A. stay by his side because you’re nervous about talking to people

B. Get out and mingle

If you’re like me, Option A is the more comfortable one.

But imagine if you grabbed a drink and mingled with people. He’s free to chat with his friends, and then he’ll look over and see you having fun. And that will make him miss you.

Of course, you should spend time together, and he should introduce you to people. But remember to step away from him once in a while.

3. Invest in yourself and your life

The previous tip to “step away” is true in the rest of your life as well. Find fun things to do so you’re not always waiting and available to do something with him.

Find a few things you love to do, or something to get involved in:

    • A new hobby, social group, hiking group, or something from Meetup.com
    • Traveling
    • Trying a new restaurant every week
    • Forming a new group for one of your interests, like a mastermind for your field, an acting group, or even a social meeting you set up.

Go out and have fun, and then tell him about it!

Why does this make him miss you? Men like to be the reason you’re smiling.

Get this—men are genetically programmed so that they want to be the sole factor in making you happy, or in making you smile.

So when other things make you happy, it triggers his “oh boy, I better pay attention to her” button.

He might feel a bit jealous, or that he’s not doing his job, or he might even worry that he’ll lose you because you’re having such a great life without his help.

So let him know you’re having fun without him, out with friends, a girl’s night, a hike, or a road trip. He see that you have a lot going on, and he’ll want to be a part of it all.

Men perceive women as sexier when they’re happy and have their own things going on. It equates with success.

Social media can help you out with this too. One of the best ways to make a man miss you is by showing your full, full, fun, and independent life on social media. (You don’t have to share everything and share all the time. Even a few photos can do wonders.)

Let him see this new, independent you via social media. Share your new classes and adventures.

For this to really work, don’t text him while you’re out doing these things. Let him see them on your Facebook or Instagram. It’ll drive him crazy.

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4. Tease him

Men loves a challenge and they love games.

So when a relationship falls into the comfortable stage, it can feel like a boring rut.

Remember Tip # 1, and don’t go overboard with texts, but when you do text, make it fun and flirty.

Tease him a little. Think about being the mysterious, sexy, siren. Send him a photo of a little black dress and say, “Wonder where I could wear this…”

A slightly suggestive text is much more intriguing than an outright naughty one.

If he’s wondering about you and wondering what kind of fun he’s missing out on, he’ll miss you.

You might send a photo of new lingerie, a new outfit, or something that will excite him.

5. Remember to have fun

If you want him to miss you, he needs a reason to.

You might feel like he hasn’t been missing you because he doesn’t seem as interested as he once was.

Maybe the relationship has been focused on “fixing things” or talking things out often, or there’s been more complaining.

Maybe you’re just busy living life, and you haven’t gotten to go out on dates, weekend trips, or other fun things that couples do.

Bring the fun back. Have a date night where you leave any issues behind and enjoy the moment.

That won’t fix any issues you’ve been dealing with, but it might help with those, and it’ll make him miss you when he goes back to work and to dealing with other things.

He’ll smile thinking about the good time that you had together, and that will make him want more.

6. Show him your adventurous side

Many women love to read romance. Men tend to like books and movies with adventure…and romance thrown in.

Men often love the thrill of the chase, competing, and going on an adventure.

Men’s Health magazine even reported that if you want a man to miss you, it’s important for you share adventure.

Being adventures might mean actually going out and doing things like mountain biking, hiking, canoeing, or trying a new sport.

It can also mean that you’re open to new experiences, even something small like trying a new restaurant or food that you’re not sure about.

And it definitely can mean being spontaneous where you decide to take off somewhere fun for the day.

You might try some new adventures on your own so he’ll see what he’s missing.

7. Wear a sexy new scent (or one he loves)

Many of these tips are about getting his attention and making things feel new again.

If you’re around your man, and it feels like he never misses you when you’re apart, try wearing a sexy new scent.

Just like changing your appearance, changing your perfume can make him feel like he’s dating someone new, but with the comfort of knowing you.

That new smell will draw him in because he’ll want to smell more of it, and a sexy new scent is very alluring and enticing to men.

Switch up your perfumes, and bring one back that you know he loves.Respark the Romance

That can trigger happy memories and make him feel closer to you.

8. Leave some mystery…

Men love intrigue, mystery, games, and adventure.

You might feel like you can’t have that if you’ve been together a long time. But there are many ways to be mysterious in a conversation, such as telling him, “Maybe I’ll tell you after dessert…”

Let’s say he hears about something but doesn’t know all of the details. When he asks, you can be playful and answer, “Wouldn’t you like to know?”

Even telling a man, “It’s a surprise” can get him thinking about you all day.

You can plan some small surprises for him, along with holding back on telling him things.

I don’t mean to hide things from him, but a fun and flirty secret is good for a relationship, and gives him something to look forward to.

If you leave some mystery and have him guessing, he’ll be thinking about you and missing you. He’ll also be thankful and excited about the mystery and secret that awaits.

These tips entice men into missing you, and they’re not about playing games or doing things you don’t want to do.

In essence, you’re being someone he’ll want to miss.

Try these tips and see if your man misses you more, while you’re having more fun too!

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10 Signs He’s Falling In Love With You By Brian Robbens

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10 Signs He’s Falling In Love With You By Brian Robbens

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When men fall, they can fall hard, and they tend to make sure you know it.

But sometimes men also pretend to fall, or they give mixed signals and you think they’re falling for you.

There’s the guy who will pour on the affection because he wants something, and the guy who gets a thrill from making women fall for him.

Other men might accidentally give you the wrong idea because they like spending time around you…but as a friend.

How do you discern when a man has real feelings, and is really falling for you?

The following 10 signs will clue you in. Seeing a few of these signs could indicate that he’s a good guy or sees you as a friend, but if you see five or more it’s much more likely he’s falling for you.

If you see these signs in a relationship, that’s even better.

But a word of caution. Men can show their feelings differently, so if he’s not doing most of these, that doesn’t mean that he doesn’t have feelings for you.

And he might be doing some of these because he knows they work on women.

So take a bird’s eye view of the situation, taking into consideration how many of these signs you see, and how you feel in general about his feelings towards you.

Looking at your situation with these 10 signs in mind will give you a much clearer idea of his true feelings toward you.

1. The look of love

When a man is falling for you, he’ll look at you a certain way. It’ll melt your heart and make you feel like you’re the only woman in the world.

It might be hard to see yourself, but your friends will either see it.

My friend Katie wasn’t sure how Michael felt about her, but once I saw him watching her with big puppy eyes, I knew he was smitten.

When falling for a woman, men will maintain eye contact longer. They’ll want to share lingering looks, and you’ll catch them looking at you when they think you’re not paying attention.

Now, men might be able to fake this look to win you over, but if you see this sign with several other signs, it’s more of a sure thing.

This spills over into other things too. He might have a special pet name for you and share inside jokes.

2. He only has eyes for you

You might have experienced the opposite of this, where a man will check out other women while on a date with you!

Some men try to be sneaky about it. Others don’t seem to care if you notice.

A man that is falling for you, however, will make sure to give you his full attention, even when it could be wandering.

Of course, some men are just respectful and won’t look at other women, even if they aren’t falling for you. (That’s why you always want to look for several of these signs.)

But a man who’s falling for you will also give indication that he’s not seeing other women and will want to focus on you. He won’t talk about other women or text others while he’s with you.

And you’ll definitely notice him appreciating how you look. He’ll give you that look, the one we talked about in the first sign. And he’ll complement how you look too.

And usually, a man who’s falling in love with you will want to talk about being exclusive so he knows you’re off the market as well.

3. He goes out of his way to do favors for you

Many men are “doers”, meaning that they show their feelings through actions.

A man that’s falling for you might drive several hours to get something for you, or he might bring you something that you mentioned liking. He’ll bring you soup when you’re sick and find other ways of doing favors for you.

Men are more likely to show love with acts of service than words and cuddles, although a man falling in love usually likes those too.

He’ll also do things to make your life easier, like fixing something for you, taking care of something that’s hard for you to do, or running an errand for you.

You’ll notice that he wants you to feel pampered and spoiled, and he wants things to be easier for you.

This is a big sign, because a man who’s faking it to get something from you won’t want to do these kinds of things for you.

A faker will pour on complements and tell you how good you look, but he won’t bring you soup and tissue when you’re sick or go pick up groceries for you.

Now, a man who sees you as a friend will do nice things to help you out, but you can usually tell the difference because he won’t show up with some little treat that you mentioned once.

A man who’s falling for you will do random acts of service and want to make your day brighter.

Respark the Romance4. He shares his interests and activities with you

A man interested in only one thing will not want to share his life with you.

A man who is falling for you, on the other hand, will want to tell you all about his interests, hobbies, friends, and life.

He’ll want to learn about your interests too, and share experiences together.

A man who is playing the field won’t talk as much about the rest of his life. Instead, he’ll be more secretive.

This is another big sign.

Sure, people usually talk and share quite a bit on the first few dates, but does he continue to tell you about his activities?

When he’s falling for you, he’ll want you to be his go-to person. He’ll want to share about his day, what happened, and what it means to him. Basically, he’ll want to keep you up to date.

If he’s falling, he’ll invite you to join some of his activities, meet his friends and family, and get involved in his life.

Men might do this with a female friend, but if you’re dating and he wants you involved in his life, it’s a pretty clear sign he’s falling for you.

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5. He values your input.

Now when your man is sharing with you, does he ask your opinion?

That’s a big part of sharing like we just discussed in sign #4.

He might tell you about what’s going on at work and ask if you think that means they’re considering him for a promotion, or if it looks like trouble ahead.

He’ll share with you wanting support and feedback.

Men don’t run their problems past people and ask for input unless they respect and trust that person.

If a man is falling for you, and thinking about a long-term relationship, he’ll want you to know what’s going on in his life, and he’ll want to know what you think about it.

Male friends might do this, but they tend to talk to other guys about most life things.

Men don’t do this with women if they’re after a fling or just the thrill of the chase.

A man who’s interested in you, or dating you, who values your thoughts on what’s going on in his life, is very into you.

6. He contacts you first

The romantic comedy “He’s just not that into you” has many insights into men.

It’s a bit harsh, but we learn: If he’s not calling you, it’s because he doesn’t want to talk to you. It’s not because he’s being held hostage or sent on a secret mission.

If a man only talks to you when you text first, it’s a bad sign.

If a man if falling for you, he’ll call and text.

He’ll also want to spend time with you and stretch out goodbyes, on the phone, texting, and in person.

This is another sign that’s pretty clear. If he’s falling for you, he’ll have to talk to you every day unless it’s a super busy day or there’s a very good reason for it.

When men fall big time, they want to check in with you and make sure that you’re thinking about them.

That’s because, when a man falls in love, he wants to make sure he’s your number one guy, and that no one else can steal you away.

7. He wants you to meet his family

If a man is serious about a woman and thinking about the future, he’ll definitely be thinking about how you’ll get along with his family.

Clue #1 here: does he talk about his family and friends?

In the early stages, he’ll tell you about the other people in his life.

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It’s a pretty big indicator if you’ve been seeing each other for a while and he doesn’t want you introduce you to the important people in his life.

Now, in some cases, there might be reasons why he feels that wouldn’t be good: maybe he’s not that proud of his family, or he has kids and wants to take things slow in that respect.

But you can tell when your relationship has reached the point that you should have met his family, or you know why you haven’t—and let’s be real. At some point, even if he’s taking it slow, you should meet his children or family.

A man who is falling for you will want to introduce you to people he cares about.

8. He shows concern.

When you have a problem, he wants to solve it. He wants you to be happy and comfortable with different situations.

He’ll want to hear about your life and things you’re dealing with, and help you when he can.

That makes him feel like he’s a part of your life—and that’s a huge sign that he’s falling for you.

If a man is falling, he’ll be protective towards you. Don’t take this to mean he sees you as weaker.

It’s just, when you love someone and want them in your life, you want to keep them safe.

9. He brings up the future

A man in love with you will ask about your future plans and want to be a part of them.

He’ll think of your first for concerts, a plus-two event, and social gatherings.

He’ll ask what you think about life and what your dreams are.

Someone who is faking or not really interested in sharing a future might talk about taking you somewhere, but it never goes further than talking.

If he’s falling, he’ll want to check if you’re on the same page as him for a future “we” and “us”.

That brings me to the last sign…”

10. He uses “we” more than I.

If a man is hanging out with you, thinking it’s a “fun thing” or “no strings attached” or “two consenting adults”, he might talk about doing things together or even talk about this life with you.

But he won’t use “we” that often.

A man who is falling in love with talk about “we” and think of you as a couple.

In fact, a man who is falling hard and fast will meet most of the signs. If you’re experiencing that, it’s one of the best rushes in life. Congrats!

If he meets most of these signs, it’s a very good chance he’s falling for you too.

We’ve talked about how fakers will work, so you can go through these signs and really see if your man is falling for you.

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10 Signs He’s Falling In Love With You By Brian Robbens