Respark the Romance
Personal Relationships

How to Make Him Miss You Like Crazy by Brian Robbens

Creator of Respark The Romance << 

There are few things more sweet and romantic than reuniting with the man you love, and having him run to you and wrap his arms around you.

Imagine him hugging you tightly and telling you how much he missed you.

It’s also very heartwarming when your man sends sweet texts even while he’s busy to let you know that you’re on his mind.

And it’s even better when he has to hear your voice because he misses you.

Respark the RomanceWe all dream of a man missing us this way, but how do you make that happen?

It can be hard when you’ve shared a home for many years and spend a lot of time together. But that doesn’t mean you don’t crave that feeling!

Chasing a man and trying to make him miss you seems to backfire — you end up looking needy and clingy, and he might run the other way. I’d like to share a better way.

Let’s look at 7 things you can do that will not only give him reason to miss you, but these tips will make you happier too.

Because, the truth is, it’s not about tricking him into missing you, but more about being someone he’ll want to miss.

 

Let’s dive into 7 ways to make him miss you like crazy!

1. Give him space and time to miss you

We usually have our phone in our hand, pocket, or bag, or sitting close by so we can text and talk anytime we want.

We tag people when we see a post they might like or send them a funny meme.

That’s great, but it’s hard for someone to miss you when you’re right in front of them all day.

So give him a little space to miss you. Give him some room to wonder what you’re doing.

Wait a bit to reply to his texts and calls to create a sense of longing before you reply to him.

If you seem busy, you seem more attractive because that means you have a life, and you’ll have more to talk about when you do talk to him.

2. Be more social

Pretend for a minute that your boyfriend or husband takes you to a party where you don’t know people.

You could:

A. stay by his side because you’re nervous about talking to people

B. Get out and mingle

If you’re like me, Option A is the more comfortable one.

But imagine if you grabbed a drink and mingled with people. He’s free to chat with his friends, and then he’ll look over and see you having fun. And that will make him miss you.

Of course, you should spend time together, and he should introduce you to people. But remember to step away from him once in a while.

3. Invest in yourself and your life

The previous tip to “step away” is true in the rest of your life as well. Find fun things to do so you’re not always waiting and available to do something with him.

Find a few things you love to do, or something to get involved in:

    • A new hobby, social group, hiking group, or something from Meetup.com
    • Traveling
    • Trying a new restaurant every week
    • Forming a new group for one of your interests, like a mastermind for your field, an acting group, or even a social meeting you set up.

Go out and have fun, and then tell him about it!

Why does this make him miss you? Men like to be the reason you’re smiling.

Get this—men are genetically programmed so that they want to be the sole factor in making you happy, or in making you smile.

So when other things make you happy, it triggers his “oh boy, I better pay attention to her” button.

He might feel a bit jealous, or that he’s not doing his job, or he might even worry that he’ll lose you because you’re having such a great life without his help.

So let him know you’re having fun without him, out with friends, a girl’s night, a hike, or a road trip. He see that you have a lot going on, and he’ll want to be a part of it all.

Men perceive women as sexier when they’re happy and have their own things going on. It equates with success.

Social media can help you out with this too. One of the best ways to make a man miss you is by showing your full, full, fun, and independent life on social media. (You don’t have to share everything and share all the time. Even a few photos can do wonders.)

Let him see this new, independent you via social media. Share your new classes and adventures.

For this to really work, don’t text him while you’re out doing these things. Let him see them on your Facebook or Instagram. It’ll drive him crazy.

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4. Tease him

Men loves a challenge and they love games.

So when a relationship falls into the comfortable stage, it can feel like a boring rut.

Remember Tip # 1, and don’t go overboard with texts, but when you do text, make it fun and flirty.

Tease him a little. Think about being the mysterious, sexy, siren. Send him a photo of a little black dress and say, “Wonder where I could wear this…”

A slightly suggestive text is much more intriguing than an outright naughty one.

If he’s wondering about you and wondering what kind of fun he’s missing out on, he’ll miss you.

You might send a photo of new lingerie, a new outfit, or something that will excite him.

5. Remember to have fun

If you want him to miss you, he needs a reason to.

You might feel like he hasn’t been missing you because he doesn’t seem as interested as he once was.

Maybe the relationship has been focused on “fixing things” or talking things out often, or there’s been more complaining.

Maybe you’re just busy living life, and you haven’t gotten to go out on dates, weekend trips, or other fun things that couples do.

Bring the fun back. Have a date night where you leave any issues behind and enjoy the moment.

That won’t fix any issues you’ve been dealing with, but it might help with those, and it’ll make him miss you when he goes back to work and to dealing with other things.

He’ll smile thinking about the good time that you had together, and that will make him want more.

6. Show him your adventurous side

Many women love to read romance. Men tend to like books and movies with adventure…and romance thrown in.

Men often love the thrill of the chase, competing, and going on an adventure.

Men’s Health magazine even reported that if you want a man to miss you, it’s important for you share adventure.

Being adventures might mean actually going out and doing things like mountain biking, hiking, canoeing, or trying a new sport.

It can also mean that you’re open to new experiences, even something small like trying a new restaurant or food that you’re not sure about.

And it definitely can mean being spontaneous where you decide to take off somewhere fun for the day.

You might try some new adventures on your own so he’ll see what he’s missing.

7. Wear a sexy new scent (or one he loves)

Many of these tips are about getting his attention and making things feel new again.

If you’re around your man, and it feels like he never misses you when you’re apart, try wearing a sexy new scent.

Just like changing your appearance, changing your perfume can make him feel like he’s dating someone new, but with the comfort of knowing you.

That new smell will draw him in because he’ll want to smell more of it, and a sexy new scent is very alluring and enticing to men.

Switch up your perfumes, and bring one back that you know he loves.Respark the Romance

That can trigger happy memories and make him feel closer to you.

8. Leave some mystery…

Men love intrigue, mystery, games, and adventure.

You might feel like you can’t have that if you’ve been together a long time. But there are many ways to be mysterious in a conversation, such as telling him, “Maybe I’ll tell you after dessert…”

Let’s say he hears about something but doesn’t know all of the details. When he asks, you can be playful and answer, “Wouldn’t you like to know?”

Even telling a man, “It’s a surprise” can get him thinking about you all day.

You can plan some small surprises for him, along with holding back on telling him things.

I don’t mean to hide things from him, but a fun and flirty secret is good for a relationship, and gives him something to look forward to.

If you leave some mystery and have him guessing, he’ll be thinking about you and missing you. He’ll also be thankful and excited about the mystery and secret that awaits.

These tips entice men into missing you, and they’re not about playing games or doing things you don’t want to do.

In essence, you’re being someone he’ll want to miss.

Try these tips and see if your man misses you more, while you’re having more fun too!

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10 Signs He’s Falling In Love With You By Brian Robbens

Personal Relationships

10 Signs He’s Falling In Love With You By Brian Robbens

Creator of Respark The Romance << 

When men fall, they can fall hard, and they tend to make sure you know it.

But sometimes men also pretend to fall, or they give mixed signals and you think they’re falling for you.

There’s the guy who will pour on the affection because he wants something, and the guy who gets a thrill from making women fall for him.

Other men might accidentally give you the wrong idea because they like spending time around you…but as a friend.

How do you discern when a man has real feelings, and is really falling for you?

The following 10 signs will clue you in. Seeing a few of these signs could indicate that he’s a good guy or sees you as a friend, but if you see five or more it’s much more likely he’s falling for you.

If you see these signs in a relationship, that’s even better.

But a word of caution. Men can show their feelings differently, so if he’s not doing most of these, that doesn’t mean that he doesn’t have feelings for you.

And he might be doing some of these because he knows they work on women.

So take a bird’s eye view of the situation, taking into consideration how many of these signs you see, and how you feel in general about his feelings towards you.

Looking at your situation with these 10 signs in mind will give you a much clearer idea of his true feelings toward you.

1. The look of love

When a man is falling for you, he’ll look at you a certain way. It’ll melt your heart and make you feel like you’re the only woman in the world.

It might be hard to see yourself, but your friends will either see it.

My friend Katie wasn’t sure how Michael felt about her, but once I saw him watching her with big puppy eyes, I knew he was smitten.

When falling for a woman, men will maintain eye contact longer. They’ll want to share lingering looks, and you’ll catch them looking at you when they think you’re not paying attention.

Now, men might be able to fake this look to win you over, but if you see this sign with several other signs, it’s more of a sure thing.

This spills over into other things too. He might have a special pet name for you and share inside jokes.

2. He only has eyes for you

You might have experienced the opposite of this, where a man will check out other women while on a date with you!

Some men try to be sneaky about it. Others don’t seem to care if you notice.

A man that is falling for you, however, will make sure to give you his full attention, even when it could be wandering.

Of course, some men are just respectful and won’t look at other women, even if they aren’t falling for you. (That’s why you always want to look for several of these signs.)

But a man who’s falling for you will also give indication that he’s not seeing other women and will want to focus on you. He won’t talk about other women or text others while he’s with you.

And you’ll definitely notice him appreciating how you look. He’ll give you that look, the one we talked about in the first sign. And he’ll complement how you look too.

And usually, a man who’s falling in love with you will want to talk about being exclusive so he knows you’re off the market as well.

3. He goes out of his way to do favors for you

Many men are “doers”, meaning that they show their feelings through actions.

A man that’s falling for you might drive several hours to get something for you, or he might bring you something that you mentioned liking. He’ll bring you soup when you’re sick and find other ways of doing favors for you.

Men are more likely to show love with acts of service than words and cuddles, although a man falling in love usually likes those too.

He’ll also do things to make your life easier, like fixing something for you, taking care of something that’s hard for you to do, or running an errand for you.

You’ll notice that he wants you to feel pampered and spoiled, and he wants things to be easier for you.

This is a big sign, because a man who’s faking it to get something from you won’t want to do these kinds of things for you.

A faker will pour on complements and tell you how good you look, but he won’t bring you soup and tissue when you’re sick or go pick up groceries for you.

Now, a man who sees you as a friend will do nice things to help you out, but you can usually tell the difference because he won’t show up with some little treat that you mentioned once.

A man who’s falling for you will do random acts of service and want to make your day brighter.

Respark the Romance4. He shares his interests and activities with you

A man interested in only one thing will not want to share his life with you.

A man who is falling for you, on the other hand, will want to tell you all about his interests, hobbies, friends, and life.

He’ll want to learn about your interests too, and share experiences together.

A man who is playing the field won’t talk as much about the rest of his life. Instead, he’ll be more secretive.

This is another big sign.

Sure, people usually talk and share quite a bit on the first few dates, but does he continue to tell you about his activities?

When he’s falling for you, he’ll want you to be his go-to person. He’ll want to share about his day, what happened, and what it means to him. Basically, he’ll want to keep you up to date.

If he’s falling, he’ll invite you to join some of his activities, meet his friends and family, and get involved in his life.

Men might do this with a female friend, but if you’re dating and he wants you involved in his life, it’s a pretty clear sign he’s falling for you.

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5. He values your input.

Now when your man is sharing with you, does he ask your opinion?

That’s a big part of sharing like we just discussed in sign #4.

He might tell you about what’s going on at work and ask if you think that means they’re considering him for a promotion, or if it looks like trouble ahead.

He’ll share with you wanting support and feedback.

Men don’t run their problems past people and ask for input unless they respect and trust that person.

If a man is falling for you, and thinking about a long-term relationship, he’ll want you to know what’s going on in his life, and he’ll want to know what you think about it.

Male friends might do this, but they tend to talk to other guys about most life things.

Men don’t do this with women if they’re after a fling or just the thrill of the chase.

A man who’s interested in you, or dating you, who values your thoughts on what’s going on in his life, is very into you.

6. He contacts you first

The romantic comedy “He’s just not that into you” has many insights into men.

It’s a bit harsh, but we learn: If he’s not calling you, it’s because he doesn’t want to talk to you. It’s not because he’s being held hostage or sent on a secret mission.

If a man only talks to you when you text first, it’s a bad sign.

If a man if falling for you, he’ll call and text.

He’ll also want to spend time with you and stretch out goodbyes, on the phone, texting, and in person.

This is another sign that’s pretty clear. If he’s falling for you, he’ll have to talk to you every day unless it’s a super busy day or there’s a very good reason for it.

When men fall big time, they want to check in with you and make sure that you’re thinking about them.

That’s because, when a man falls in love, he wants to make sure he’s your number one guy, and that no one else can steal you away.

7. He wants you to meet his family

If a man is serious about a woman and thinking about the future, he’ll definitely be thinking about how you’ll get along with his family.

Clue #1 here: does he talk about his family and friends?

In the early stages, he’ll tell you about the other people in his life.

And as things get more serious, he’ll want you to meet them.Respark the Romance

It’s a pretty big indicator if you’ve been seeing each other for a while and he doesn’t want you introduce you to the important people in his life.

Now, in some cases, there might be reasons why he feels that wouldn’t be good: maybe he’s not that proud of his family, or he has kids and wants to take things slow in that respect.

But you can tell when your relationship has reached the point that you should have met his family, or you know why you haven’t—and let’s be real. At some point, even if he’s taking it slow, you should meet his children or family.

A man who is falling for you will want to introduce you to people he cares about.

8. He shows concern.

When you have a problem, he wants to solve it. He wants you to be happy and comfortable with different situations.

He’ll want to hear about your life and things you’re dealing with, and help you when he can.

That makes him feel like he’s a part of your life—and that’s a huge sign that he’s falling for you.

If a man is falling, he’ll be protective towards you. Don’t take this to mean he sees you as weaker.

It’s just, when you love someone and want them in your life, you want to keep them safe.

9. He brings up the future

A man in love with you will ask about your future plans and want to be a part of them.

He’ll think of your first for concerts, a plus-two event, and social gatherings.

He’ll ask what you think about life and what your dreams are.

Someone who is faking or not really interested in sharing a future might talk about taking you somewhere, but it never goes further than talking.

If he’s falling, he’ll want to check if you’re on the same page as him for a future “we” and “us”.

That brings me to the last sign…”

10. He uses “we” more than I.

If a man is hanging out with you, thinking it’s a “fun thing” or “no strings attached” or “two consenting adults”, he might talk about doing things together or even talk about this life with you.

But he won’t use “we” that often.

A man who is falling in love with talk about “we” and think of you as a couple.

In fact, a man who is falling hard and fast will meet most of the signs. If you’re experiencing that, it’s one of the best rushes in life. Congrats!

If he meets most of these signs, it’s a very good chance he’s falling for you too.

We’ve talked about how fakers will work, so you can go through these signs and really see if your man is falling for you.

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10 Signs He’s Falling In Love With You By Brian Robbens

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Are you Settling?

Editor’s note:  I’ve been busy with other projects and have been remiss in posting emails from my favorite author, Jeff Lerner (Co-Founder of Lifestyle Design International).  This is short and sweet and boils everything down to one simple factor that keeps many people stuck where they are–fear.  Is this you? Are you settling?  Contemplate this as you take the three minutes or less to read his email to me.  Best wishes and continued success to you!

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The No. 1 reason is fear.

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How to save my marriage
Personal Relationships

8 Scientific Ways To Be More Attractive To Men

Or, How to Save a Marriage.

By Brian Robbens

Creator of Respark The Romance

Some things in life are set…

…but probably not as many as we think.

To illustrate this, have you ever ran into someone you went to school with ten years prior, and been amazed at how they looked now?

This last year, some of my high school classmates made a Facebook group, and soon I was reconnecting with people that I hadn’t seen in twenty years.

Many looked very similar to the way they did in high school. One woman, however, about knocked me over.

She was a “side kick” to a popular girl back in the day, and not really that noticeable. Well, these days she’s a bombshell.

But something was very different, even though I instantly recognized her.

It really makes you stop and think about attractiveness, which brings me to my first point:

Attractiveness relies on much more than your physical appearance.

You would think that being sexy, hot, beautiful, or attractive is about how you look physically.

It is… and it isn’t.

It’s in the way you carry yourself, the way you dress, how you care for yourself, the people you hang out with, and how you talk to people.

We don’t need science to prove to anyone that you look healthier and more attractive if you eat right, exercise, and spend a little time and money on your appearance.

You can tweak your diet to help you build more muscle, to have better skin, and to have an overall healthy glow.

Someone who takes good care of themselves, and has a positive outlook, is very attractive to others. They pull all people in, so it’s even more than a sexual attraction.

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Now that I’ve made that point, we can look at eight ways to use science to look more attractive to men.

All of these, except #5, are things that anyone can do.

1. Show those pearly whites

Smiling stimulates men’s brains in many ways, and these work together to make you appear more attractive.

First, we know that anyone who smiles looks more welcoming, so a man will be more likely to approach you if you give him a smile. A smile disarms a man, so he’ll feel more at ease and even protective of you. That will help you notice positive things and feel more comfortable.

Men like people who like them, so a smile makes them think you like them more, and therefore makes you appear more attractive. That might be a bit odd, but it’s true. If a man thinks you like him, you appear more attractive!

That’s important because some people have trouble smiling, or forget to smile, when they’re nervous.

Remember that he’s nervous too, and try for a natural smile.

Also make sure your teeth are healthy and white. A study found that when women had whiter teeth, the men showed a 54% increase in wanting to continue the date.

The really surprising thing was that men also thought that women with whiter teeth were more outgoing. So a natural, bright smile can make you appear much more attractive and outgoing.

2. Wear red

In a study, men rated photos of women for attractiveness in front of different color backgrounds.

The women in front of red scored the highest.

If a man isn’t attracted to you, wearing red probably won’t change that. But if you catch his eye, and you happen to have some red incorporated into your outfit, it’ll grab his attention even more.

Red seems to trigger something biologically in men, maybe because they’re drawn to rosy cheeks. Some experts will tell you to use this tip and wear red lipstick. Studies have found that men will look at a mouth for 2 to 3 times longer when a woman wears red lipstick. So in a group of women, wearing red lipstick will really make you stand out.

Go to your favorite makeup counter to have a professional help you find the right shade of red for you.

3. Wear Solid Colors

And while we’re talking about what to wear—solid colors are more attractive to men than patterns. So a solid color shirt or dress will catch his attention more than a pattern.

Women tend to love patterns and layering things, so it goes against what we might pick out. But you can test this out one evening by wearing a solid color, and also take a look at women who men are watching, and notice what they’re wearing.

4. Scent is sexyHow to save a marriage

While primping your appearance, don’t forget about perfume.

Our smell is connected to our emotional and memory centers in the brain. That’s why a scent can bring back a very old memory, or even evoke an emotion out of the blue.

Having a nice perfume is the finishing touch on classiness and sexiness.

It really pulls a man in when you smell nice!

The key is finding a perfume that combines with your own body chemistry, so you’ll want to try perfumes on the test paper, in the air, and a little on your skin.

Go for a holistic approach and think about the scent of your shampoo, conditioner, skin conditioner, and perfume.

5. Keep your hair long and healthy

Long, healthy hair shows fertility, and that might by why men are genetically drawn to it.

Younger women also tend to have longer hair than older woman, so it’s a sign of youth.

We could think about it deeper and say that long hair is seen as feminine, since most men have short hair. And men to like women, at least visually, for the things that are different about them from men.

But for whatever reason, studies have proven that men’s preferred hair style is long, straight and down. Long, curly, and down is their second favorite hair style, followed by a styled ponytail. “Long” hair doesn’t have to be super long, so you’ll still want to trim split ends and keep it healthy looking.

6. Mimic his body language, subtly!

So this a weird tip, but another one that works on a subconscious level.

You can appear more attractive to a man by mimicking his body language. It makes you seem more likable. But you don’t want to mirror him while he’s doing something. Make sure it’s not noticeable so it won’t make him feel strange. The effect is subconscious. He’ll feel more attracted to you without knowing why.

And men don’t analyze why they feel attracted to a woman. They believe it’s an either/or thing: they either feel it or they don’t. Hardly any men realize that women can do different things to appear more attractive.

Keep this tip in mind, and notice things he does. Wait a few minutes, and do something similar. Notice if he touches his hair, how he sits, and body language.

Keep in mind, he’ll do some things that look better on a male, so try to think of a female version. You don’t have to copy him exactly.

7. Higher pitch voices

Men like things about women that are different than them. In other words, they like feminine things like pretty dresses, the hour glass shape, long hair, and big, pouty lips.

Men are drawn to feminine voices too.

So a higher pitched voice will make him want to protect you, and that makes him attracted. Don’t go for a fake voice. But you might take some time and notice if you lower your voice. Some people do that out of habit.

8. Confidence is always in style

You can put all the time in the world into how you look, but it’ll ruin that if you put yourself down, talk about not being good enough, or show that you doubt yourself a lot.

Sometimes people “wow” us with their personality and confidence, and we want to be around them, never thinking about what they look like.

Attractiveness is about much more than a straight photograph of a person; it includes personality, charm, flirtiness, and confidence.

If you put some of the above tips to use and add in a dose of confidence, you’ll be a man magnet and you my learn how to save a marriage!

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The Mindset of a Winner

Editor’s Note:  What is your mindset?  Is it that of a winner or are you continuing to drown in the pity potty?  This famous quote by Napoleon Hill, author of Think and Grown Rich, states “Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.” .   It’s been a while since I posted something from my favorite email author, Jeff Lerner, due to some medical issues.  He’s my friend, business partner and mentor.  Read this if your mindset needs some attention.  Then, get started!

The mind is powerful.

What we think, is possible. When we believe we will fail, we do. To set ourselves up for success it is important to
create a winning mindset.

The Mindset of a Winner

Jeff Lerner, CEO Lifestyle Design International

Focusing on the impossibility of a task sets us up for failure.  When we possess this mindset and then fail, our natural reaction is: “I knew it all along, I’m a failure.” It is a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Focusing on the positive encourages us forward.

When we possess this mindset and fail, our reaction becomes one of determination. The failure is not defeat but only a challenge along the road to success. When we succeed our reaction is, “I knew it all along!”
Self-imposed limitations must be overcome to create a winning mindset.

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You might also like to read this from Jeff from an earlier post:  http://teamsteverhyner.com/one-decision-away/ 
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The True Wealth Premise

Editor’s note:  I’ve been busy with other projects and time has been short to post but this email, one of many I get regularly, from my friend, mentor and business partner–Jeff Lerner–caught my attention.  Particularly the two  questions:  “What is true wealth? Why do so few achieve it?”  Ponder that question as you read and if what we have interests you watch the video [Link below]

The Wealth Premise

Jeff Lerner, CEO Lifestyle Design International

What is true wealth and Why Do So Few Achieve it? I define it as creating substantial financial means in a shortened period of time outside of today’s standard or norm.

That, of course, is the goal, the dream – the vision, if you will – that just about every single human being on Earth today is striving for, yet very few ever come close to it. Sadly, you and I both know that that is reality. Does it mean that for 97% of the population that true wealth is not achievable? On the contrary, I present to you that 97% of the general population certainly can amass substantial health and financial means. So the obvious question remains: why do so few achieve it?

Since we have defined true wealth as something far beyond (though including) cash in hand (though it absolutely
is intrinsically related), let’s talk about why so few attain it.  Now before we do, let’s look at some methodologies for
creating wealth available today.

Means of Producing What is True Wealth and Why So Few Achieve It (by today’s standard) – Traditional employment. Working 9 to 5, or some variation thereof in exchange for a paycheck at the end of the week, month, etc.

– Entrepreneurship. For example, starting your own business of some kind, whether a brick-and-mortar local business, digitally based, etc.

While we could talk about other ways to create what is true wealth, 99% of the population fall into one of the two primary categories I mentioned above. Something else to be considered is the fact that the overwhelming majority of the population falls into the employee category, which brings in both a fundamental flaw, in my opinion, as well as an opportunity.

Now that I’ve piqued your interest, let’s look at the employee trap vs. the new opportunity only available in today’s new economy in this post on our blog.  What is True Wealth?  Why Do So Few Achieve it?  Watch the video at the link below and you might find some clues.

Better yet, watch this, which shows you how REAL wealth can be created.

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Your Best eBay Listing Auction Times For Maximum Profit

How to Find Your Best eBay Listing Auction Times For Maximum Profit

Some of the best lessons trying to find the best eBay listing auction times in internet or eCommerce marketing are from trial and error.  But what if I could show you a simple and affordable way to learn something while not making any mistakes.  In this blog post I’m going to share with you my secret weapon which will help you know your best eBay listing auction times for maximum profit.

Trial and Errors finding Your Best eBay Listing Auction Times?

Imagine all of the successful eBay (and Amazon) eCommerce stores around the world.  They have figured out what is your best eBay listing auction times for maximum profit.  Some have done it with trial and error–an expensive lesson for sure.  Others have relied on the research labs of SaleHoo directory.  At SaleHoo they have done the heavy lifting for you including why it’s so important to list your auction at the best time along with other great tips for creating a successful auction listing.

Consider SaleHoo’s Market Research Labs

Best eBay Listing Auction Times

See Your Profits More Accurately

For me to figure out what time is best to list my auction I use SaleHoo’s Market Research Labs.  Some auction items sell better than others at different times.  But how would you know?  It’s easy when you rely on the experts with years of experience at SaleHoo’s Market Research Lab.  No more guessing and hoping when you use the lab not to mention over 8,000 trusted wholesalers of cheap products in the directory.  This directory is extremely useful to find items in high demand but low supply and you know what that means–high profit margins!  If you sell items on eBay I recommend you get SaleHoo and soon.

Why you Need to get the Listing Time Right

Your best eBay auction times for maximum profit is obvious.  It’s the time people interested in your item and niche are actually online!  Seems simple enough.  You’ll get more bids and make more sales.  Listing at the wrong time will cost you sales and profits.  For example, college students stay up late at night and and bid late while stay at home mothers go to bed earlier and subsequently bid earlier.  Know your niche and know your potential customers.  Let SaleHoo Market Research Labs takes the guessing game out of this and figures it out for you.

Tips for Increasing Auction Success Rate

Best eBay Listing Auction Times

Find Low Cost Suppliers

Here are some more tips;  use a picture you have taken and try not to use stock images.  Just make sure it’s clear and not washed out.  Be sure and include a description too.  Try to make that description as in depth as possible and don’t just write a few sentences.  Remember to get higher up in the Google rankings it’s important to not copy and paste descriptions.  Google doesn’t like duplicate content.  So be creative and use your own words.

Details about refunds/returns and shipping are also helpful in the description for your customer.  This helps you appear more professional and creates the know, like and trust factor–so important in internet and eCommerce marketing.

Your Best eBay Listing Auction Time For Maximum Profit

To sum up everything for your best eBay listing auction times tor maximum profit.  But do you have the time?  I strongly suggest you consider SaleHoo’s directory and Market Research Lab.  It’ll give you a leg up on the competition and done consistently will result in a profitable online store.  Good luck and continued success to you.



To learn more about finding affordable Chinese wholesale suppliers you can trust click here and read my earlier post.

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One Decision Away from an Amazing Future?

One Decision Away from an Amazing Future.  Those that made that decision are part of the 3 Percenters.  Let me explain what that is and why it is crucial to your future.

There are 2 groups of people in this life…

The 97%.

And…

The 3%.

One Decision Away From An Amazing Future

Jeff Lerner, CEO Lifestyle Design International

The 97 percenters are the ones who follow the masses and let someone else decide their futures for them.

They are the ones who like to fit into nicely designed cubicles and are the “worker drones” that so many in the world are today.

Now don’t get me wrong. The world needs worker bees just like they need leaders, and that’s exactly how I describe the 97 percenters. They simply follow the system, the rules, and the dictates of what society says is possible and let the status quo rule the show.

BUT…

The 3 percenters are polar opposite of that. In fact, the 3 percenters are part of a group that at one time were One Decision Away From an Amazing Future.  They made that decision and are now the ones who change the world (for the better) by creating new things, whether that be software, hardware, technology, or systems.

The 3 percenters are the ones who boldly forge new paths for themselves and for those who have the courage to follow them. The 3 percenters truly are the ones who take the spoils in this life.

A friend of mine once told me that success is reserved for the 3% in this life who have chosen to be:

– People of action.
– Decisive.
– Quick to make decisions yet slow to change once they do.
– Those who want to make a difference in this world.
– Those who choose to show up and play their best game… a bigger game.
– Those who care enough about those around them to step up and do what needs
to be done.

So let me ask you a question. Are you a 3 percenter or a 97 percenter?

Are you someone who watches from the sidelines as others work to create the success so many others jealously desire but aren’t willing to do what it takes to get the job done?

You are just one decision away from success.

You are just one decision away from an amazing future.

You are just one decision away from being the person you NEED to become so you can HAVE the future, the income, and the LIFE that you have always wanted.

Make the decision today, and change your life forever.

Carve out twenty short minutes to listen to what I have to say, and submit an application so you can see EXACTLY how I got from being dead broke to being an Internet millionaire – and how I am teaching my students to do the EXACT same thing.

They wanted a simple, common-sense, home-based Internet business with high integrity and years of stability, that will put them back in total control of  their finances, their freedom, and their life.

If you want this too, watch this and let’s get you  on a call with my Top Business Coach ASAP.

**Jeff Lerner, author of this email which was sent to me, is my mentor, business partner and friend who writes amazingly well and causes one to think about their position in life.  It was this sort of presentation that brought me to one decision away from an amazing future and to join him and the Lifestyle Design International team.
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Importing from China; Products are Cheap but is it Safe?

Importing from China, Is it Safe?

Importing from China; is it safe for your new eCommerce store?  It seemed simple when you made the decision but now it’s time to dig into the details on how to operate a successful online store.  You’re going to need items to sell; popular items at the best price possible so you have a good profit margin. In this post I’m going to talk about whether it’s safe importing from China.  It’s no secret with their low wage base, products from China are generally less expensive even when you take freight costs into account.

Problems Importing from China

Here’s the problem when you’re importing from China.  You can’t always trust the supplier.  Some will take your money and won’t even bother to send you the merchandise you ordered.  Others will not send you legitimate products.  If you get knock-off products, you risk being prosecuted, even if you don’t sell them, because it’s even illegal to buy them!  An arrest warrant is the last thing you want to see.  So, the bottom line is importing from China is not safe to do unless you know the supplier can be trusted.  The trick is to verify the supplier will send you the stock and also send you legitimate products.  Then, and only then does it become perfectly safe to import from China.  Research is needed and my secret tool will help you in that process.

Importing From China Contact Suppliers

How to Contact Suppliers

My Secret Tool

My secret tool?  SaleHoo!  SaleHoo will assist you for finding Chinese suppliers that you can trust.  SaleHoo does not add a supplier to their directory until they have gone through a very stringent verification process proving that they can be trusted and they’re real.  Not only that, SaleHoo provides user reviews from real people that use suppliers so you can choose to only deal with suppliers that have passed SaleHoo’s test and of course have good reviews from actual customers.  So if you want to feel secure and safe when dealing with cheap Chinese imports your answer is to use SaleHoo’s directory.

More Tips to Import Safely from China

Here are a few tips on  importing from China safely without SaleHoo.  Only deal with suppliers that have been in business for two years or more.  Look into their history.  You can always Google the supplier and look for reviews.  If you can’t find a review for a supplier, then don’t use them.  Another idea is to ask for samples and buy small lots first.  If the supplier has a website then the the WHOIS details and see if the website has been online for more than two years.  Another good tip is to use Google to verify their physical location and that it actually exists.

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SaleHoo has a lab for your product research

Do you really have time to do all of that just to secure merchandise to sell?  My guess is probably not.  Instead, why not make an affordable investment in SaleHoo and their directory.  It’s well worth the money and alternative is either having your money stolen with no merchandises  getting illegitimate knock-off merchandise illegally and risk legal problems and that’s even if you don’t even sell the product as it’s illegal to even buy them!

Conclusion

With all of the hassles of finding reputable suppliers from China it only makes good sense to invest in the SaleHoo directory so you know the suppliers you choose have been verified after a very stringent verification process.  Oh, and did you know that with SaleHoo you can even set up your online store?  To learn more about SaleHoo, their directory, their store set-up, their “lab” and user reviews go to this link to get all of the information.  Don’t forget to consider drop shipping.  It’ll save you money and hassle of warehousing and then sending your merchandise to your customers.  It’s all done for you.  Good luck with your eCommerce store!



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Drop Shipping; A Quick Way of Making Risk-Free Money

Is Drop Shipping for you?

What is drop shipping?  In this blog post I’m going to explain to you what drop shipping is.  I honestly didn’t know exactly what it was when I first heard the phrase although it’s relatively easy to take a guess.  But let’s be precise and tell you exactly what it is.  Drop shipping is a very fast way of making easy, risk-free income.  Read on to find out why it’s risk free and why it can be very easy.

Drop Shippers Explained

What is a drop shipper?  Drop shipping is when a company, not you, stocks an item for sale and then sends them directly to your customers.  If you wanted to start a retail store on any main street USA there are many tasks you’d have to accomplish.  You’d have to find a location and either lease or purchase it, buy or build shelves and other merchandising material, furnish the interior so that it’s attractive to your potential customers and so much more.

Usually with an online retail store you also need to purchase stock.  You then need to send individual items to your customers and of course this has to be done in advance so you’re prepared to ship the items when an order is placed.  Then you have to hope and pray you sell all of the items and are not stuck with them or putting them on sale at a heavy discount.

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Drop Shipping Training is extensive

Benefits of Drop Shipping

Drop shipping lets you skip this step.  When a customer buys an item from you, you contact the drop shipping company, otherwise known as the drop shipper, and purchase the item from them.  They will then send the item directly to your customers.  Nice, right?  This removes the risk from buying and selling online.  Here’s a link to the ultimate drop shipping guide.

Is It Possible to Make Money Drop Shipping?

Now, the first question is: how do you make money from this method?  First you need to open an online store and sell items you can drop ship.  One popular place to do this is eBay.  Mark-up prices make a profit of between 10% and 50%.  But what if you made your own online store?  An easy way to do this is with SaleHoo Stores.  Not only are you in control but you can avoid eBay fees!

How Can You Trust Drop Shippers?

Then there’s the problem of finding drop shippers.  There are a lot of drop shippers in China that can’t be trusted.  They will take your money and not send you the items or send you illegitimate items that are illegal.  This is not a good situation for your online business.

SaleHoo Drop Shipping DirectorSaleHoo is an online directory that has over 8,000 drop shippers, wholesalers and liquidators listed.  Using a directory like SaleHoo is great because it ensures you’re dealing with verified suppliers you can trust.  Don’t get fooled by untrustworthy drop shippers in foreign countries.

Conclusion

In short, if you want to make fast, risk-free money with an online store there’s an easy way and a hard way.  Take the easy way!  Use SaleHoo stores and their software will have you up and running in short order.  Then use the SaleHoo directory to find items to sell from trusted verified sources.  Plus, SaleHoo has a research department and community to answer all of your questions and concerns.  It really is a neat place if you’re going to start or want to re-start your online store!  Here’s a link to SaleHoo.  Once you get there, you’ll find everything you need including videos, training, SaleHoo Store and so much more.  Log-in now and see if it’s a fit for you.  Working from home is the best decision I ever made and I LOVE being my own boss.  You will too.